Karin Toh’s Birthday Party Part II

Just as per topic.

Karin celebrated her actual birthday with us, her lovely girls and it was really OH-WHAT-A-NIGHT.

At least for me.

Because it was my drunk-est night for me in 2009. (I am damn serious about it, you wouldn’t want to know how piss drunk I am)

Shit and I have to bear the consequences after that, that is to pacify the already very angry BF. What a task!! Because it is a very challenging task to do. ARGH. HAHA. 

Anyway, here is that night! I love the pictures very much though!

Friday, 25th September

Met up with the girlies at usual place, Mr Bean for some coffee first. Jac and I were the first to reach. Weixiong and Renner came to pass me wedding card for Renner’s wedding, which is on the 17th October. And dear is coming with me. HEHE.

Toh came shortly, the clock striked 12 shortly and it is Happy Birthday for Miss Toh! Ah huh, being the very nice friend as what I mentioned before in the previous post, I did up a card for her.

I am not really an art and craft person and I suck at designing. But overall it is my hard work that counts okie! Printing and cutting that 25 friendship quotes ain’t easy lor. Time consuming man! HAHA. But that is for Miss Toh only!

She is touched I know. Because she knows I am not such ‘romantic’ person that will do up a card for somebody.

Char came and off we went to St James for Linda & co.

While we were at the F1 event outside St James. Nice cars they have!

And we settled down in DF shortly after..

Photos and Photos (that was before we are gone, the after-drinking photos are just damn funny)

 

And that is Miss Toh with people who she has not taken photo with last Sunday..

Owen~

Wuming~

Jason~

Charlotte and Nick~

Celest~

Silver~

Bryan~

Jaccent~

With her Linda-Jie~

Us and Linda!

Champagne popping!

HAHAHHA damn funny Toh is dancing with her ‘Rabbit-Man’

And this is the Rabbit Man. “Joke of the night : see him feel like doing workout. LOL!”

 

After from here, it was drinking all the night. Martell, Smirnoff, Champagne. All mixed together and that is the drunk-est night, for me and maybe Toh. HAHA

See the photos and it explained ‘DRUNK’ to you.

LOL

WATERY EYES!

AND KISSING PHOTOS……..AGAIN !! (I seriously don’t remember taking all these photos at all, not even one. So can you imagine how piss drunk I was?)

My goodness. WTF??? LOL!!

 

And there is another drunk man too.. because apparently, he is so call ‘celebrating’ his birthday as well.. this is none other than..

MR OWEN TAN!

Nice sleep eh?

So since he is so nicely soundly asleep, the girls camwhore with his specky!

Where am I ah? HAHA

And some other self-shots of Miss Toh.. but I was not around..taken by Linda!

WOO !!

WEE!!

Slurps~

*Toh*

*Toh* in the car. HAHA

vomited for the 5th time!!

And so……. enough of Miss Toh.

The other girls and Owen went home together with me and Jason sent all of them back.

I made Dear super angry because of some stupid things I did and I spent my whole Saturday coaxing him and been “interrogated” by him.  

Sometimes I question my EQ. It was already not very high during normal days and it deteriorate even more after over-dosage of alcohol.

Luckily, he was appeased on Sunday (I guess so because he bought breakfast for me). Butttttt, we ended up quarreling at night again.

Both went to Owen’s dinner party but not much words exchanged. It’s not that I don’t want to speak to him but I just couldn’t because we haven’t really sort things out and I am still not in the state of cooling.

Until at night when both talked things out. Well, I should have said it was quite a heated argument but it all ended well after that when he apologise. And I gave in further by pouring him a cup of water and demurely asked why is he coughing.

HAHA.

I don’t know about him, but at least after each quarrel, I feel our relationship has been put up to the next level. At least we understand what we want from each other more and will put into effort in building a stronger relationship next time and refrain from doing things that the other party might not like. So, quarrel might not be a bad thing after all, but must be a healthy one la. HAHA

I spent my Monday and Tuesday “bedridden” at home because I was sick! I had stomach flu and was feeling lethargic and nausea throughout the day. I don’t know what I ate to feel so. Is it because of the buffet dinner on Sunday at Sakura? Don’t think so too because Dear and Owen is not feeling sick. Only me!

Damn the sickness and I slept throughout the 2 days. Dear made very constant calls to check out on me and offered to bring me to doctor yesterday but I declined because I know he is very busy. Moreover, we stayed so far away from each other and I am not sick until I can’t walk to see the doctor myself.

Actually wanted to meet him last night but he needs to settle his car rental work till quite late. Therefore, we will be meeting later!

On an advance basis, I hereby shall give some well wishes to Owen Tan whose birthday falls on a children day! 1st October!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BROTHER! MAY ALL YOUR WISHES COME TRUE!

I am glad that you like the present that we gave you and yeah, apart from wishing you a happy birthday, I am happy that you finally got into a new phase in life! *grin*

Enjoy it! =D~

 

(photos of his birthday dinner at Sakura will be up once Jason send me. =D~~ )

random

It is the end of the week again.

Not in a pretty mood now. Some glitches going on regarding work. Moreover, I feel screwed up biologically. Don’t know why the woman thing in me changes suddenly.

BOO

I went to Queensway after work yesterday. Main mission is to buy Owen’s birthday present. Yeah, his birthday is next Thursday and we are going for a dinner celebration this Sunday. Secondary mission is to buy my lenses. I used to buy my lenses from Queensway because it is cheaper and convenient for me to get it from there. But now I have moved, I hardly have time to go back.

Since I have the time, transport and mission, I head on to Queensway Shopping Centre. Spent almost more than 2 hours there. Got my lenses, a pair of glasses and most importantly, Owen Tan’s present! Woo, I bet he loves it!

Jason & Owen came to look for me and accompany to Alexandra to eat my favourite Seafood Fried Rice. Missed that so much! But I feel the standard dropped abit. Not as tasty as before. Went to IKEA as Jason wants to get a box to store his stuff.

Followed Jason home. Quite funny driving 2 cars. Slept quite early at around 12.30am. But still I feel like yawning now!

Anyway, I finally cleared all my stuffs that was left at Hubert’s place on Wednesday night. Dear came to fetch me and accompany to his place to take my stuff. OH IT HAS BEEN SO LONG SINCE I SEEN AH MAO! Still the same I feel, didn’t grow bigger but still a charming cat. HEHE

I have got so many things still left over at his house, like 2 big bags of clothes, my books and at least 7-8 pairs of shoes. Lucky Jason is there to help me carry it and ferry my stuffs back home for me. Thanks dear, really appreciate that even though I know you are very busy and tired for making so many trips that night. Ya, he came from Bedok to Bt Panjang and fetch me to Tiong Bahru then to Tampines (because his customer’s rental car broke down), then to Bedok (for late night dinner, like 1am??? poor me is very hungry too, lol) then to Bt Panjang again.

I was so busy packing my stuff that night that I didn’t have a chance to talk much to Auntie. Therefore, I sent her an email yesterday:

Dear Auntie,

How are you getting on? Sorry that I didn’t have a chance to talk much to you last night because I was in a rush.

How is your leg? Does it still swell often?

Anyway Auntie, I just want to say a big thank you to you, for taking care of me all these while when I stayed at your house. I am very much grateful to you because you take care of me like your daughter, like how you take care of Hubert and Annabel.

I will never forget the time when you helped me out when I had problems and always showering care and concern to me.

Seriously, I am really still quite not use to not seeing you all for that long. =)

You are always someone that I respect utmost. Even though Hubert and I are no longer together, I still hope to keep in contact with you and see how you are doing.

Hope we can update each other on our lives and I wish you all the best in everything you do!

Take good care auntie. Buzz me if in any case you need my help

She replied me shortly,

 

Dearest Phyllis

Annabel & I were very delighted to see you last night. I am, indeed, extremely happy & pleased to see that you have moved on with your life positively & cheerfully. I will continue to pray for you and give you my blessings.

Thank you for enquiring my legs. Due to past injuries & aging, I have to bear with the pain now & then.

Must also thank you for the handphone.

We will be friends forever and do contact me if you need any help.

Yeah, she is someone who I respect dearly and was grateful to in my heart. For all the 6-7 years I have stayed there, she is like my own mum. Thinking back about how well she treated me, I really feel that I owe her alot.

Anyway, I wish the family all the best. =)

It is Karin’s actual birthday tomorrow! On top of the present that I gave her last Sunday, I have another ’special’ gift for her!

 

I spent most of my yesterday in office doing it, discreetly of course! I have never done this before for a friend hor. And she is just so fortunate, she is really blessed to have good friend like me! HAHA

I think she will like it. And she will get to see it tonight!

Yeah!

Ending with photos with BFFs

Taken last week using Kim’s HP

 

 

Karin’s Quarter Century Birthday Party!

I am super efficent in updating my blog and Linda is also efficent in uploading all the photos in FB.

Toh’s actual birthday is on the 26th Sept. But in conjunction with the long weekend, she decided to celebrate in real advance.

And I am writing it in PURPLE because this post is for her and with her favourite purple colour!

Here it is!

Sunday, 20th Sept

All meet up at Vivo City for dinner first.

Initially, Miss Toh still feels it is abit ‘Cheena’to eat in this restaurant. She exclaims that it is not CNY nor ‘JIA TOH’. LOL.

We just assure her that we are anything la, because we love the ‘duck’ dishes they serve!

We ordered a total of 9 dishes and there are only 5 of us. We are glutton, we know!

 We wiped out almost everything!

Afterwhich, the girls is not getting enough. They NEED dessert.

Therefore, they choose their favourite of the lots!

AWFULLY CHOCOLATE ICE-CREAM

ღ ~lOvEs~ღ

The goddess of the night!

And Miss Toh heavily indulgence face on the ice-cream..

So, the girls went out to ‘breathe some fresh air’ and took some photos!

Toh and her girlies!

Linda (MAMA-San) with her girlies

No, we don’t coincidentally wear black, we did it delibrately. Because the theme is – BLACK DRESS!

Ladies in black was caught…….

Enjoying the sea breeze

&

Shopping in VIVO CITY

Time is up and we are going to the party venue!

Before that, we must really camera the female lead one more time.

S-E-X-Y B A B Y!

oh my oh my LOL!! I am sorry that the face turns out to be so wrong. I am actually pondering whether I should post this up, but do you really think I care, Miss Toh?? HAHAHA! (no worries la, nobody read my blog one la, it is for my own viewing pleasure only, lol !! )

Party Venue – DRAGONFLY

Of course, Miss DF must celebrate in DF la!!

It is Pocky Time always!

How can we not take a picture of our ‘ Essence’ of the night? Happy Bdae! From Bernard to Karin! WOO!

From Linda to Karin – Her favourite flowers : Birds of Paradise!

Her presents and our props!

Miss Toh with her besties for years

Miss Toh with her favourite flowers and her rigid support for the night!

Miss Toh with flowers that are not meant for her (LOL). Aiyer, my favourite blue roses!!

We were there early, enjoying the Velvet Band.

Then went to camwhore in toilet again. HEHE

 

And the below are Miss Toh with the Velvet Band!

Xiao Long

Kai Li

Shane

Simon Lai

And the rest of the girls are

‘Selling’ their another signature alcohol – SMIRNOFF GREEN APPLE ANYONE?

The Birds of Paradise certainly doesn’t weigh light!

Shane Tan again~

We spent most of our time in the early part pushing people infront. No, we are not trying to be hooligans but just so freaking irritating that the people at the front is pushing their luck too much!

They pissed us off big time. First, they occupied the whole space infront of us with many many people. Secondly, one of the guys try to carry Miss Toh up to the podium which means his filthy hands  touch Toh’s butts. Thirdly, one of the girls ‘accidentally’ stepped hard on my leg.

~

So, we didn’t really mean to push them like Ah Lians looking for fight!

Anyway, forget about the irritating bunch of people, they really disperse quite fast later part of the night. HENG AH!

Babes on podium

ALRIGHT, THE MOST ANTICIPATING MOMENT OF THE NIGHT!

THE SABOTAGE GAMES ARE ON!

HAHAHAHHA YOU WILL NEVER GUESS HOW UNGLAM MISS TOH CAN GET WHEN SHE PLAYED THOSE GAMES, HILARIOUS!

So, Linda the Mastermind draw up all the sabotage plan and even throw in the props. Applause to her. What is fun without her, our dear MAMA-San!

FIRST SABO SHE ‘LUCKY’ PICK –

To kiss 7 people. Minimum 3 guys!!

Okie lor, so she can choose 4 girls. Being the friends that has been through thick and thin with her, we agree to be the victims lor! HAHA

Number 1 – Miss Char

Number 2 – Miss Lye

Number 3 – Miss Khoo

Number 4 – Kaili

HAHAHA ANTICIPATING THE GUYS RIGHT? WHO CAN BE SO LUCKY!

  

  

Its our dear friend, Fish!

 

 

AND

 

 

 

 Wuming !!

Number 7 is boring

She lives in her own fantasy world to believe that Winnie the Pooh is a MALE

Give it to you la ! HEHE

SECOND SABO – WEARING TAMPON EARRINGS!!!

Description – Wear this pair of TAMPON earrings walk around DF, talk to somebody from the next table, go to the ladies and to the smoking room!

Miss Toh with Linda’s newly invented trendy earrings. Who want to buy please look for Linda, she can custom make perfectly for you, even with your name on it !

Miss Toh is spotted……

Talking to the somebody from another table

In the ladies

In the smoking room

GREAT! She cleared all the rounds !

Sabo No. 3 -

Wearing Nipple Tape visibly!

Courtesy to Miss Char for sponsoring the props! HAHA

Woo, you look freaking cool and fashionable !!

You should have guess what is K T by now.

IF YOU THINK THE ABOVE IS TOO MUCH FOR YOU TO TAKE..

THEN YOU ARE SO WRONG!

BECAUSE THE LAST ONE IS THE MOST OBSCENE…

THAT YOU WILL NEVER EVER THOUGHT OF DOING THAT KIND OF THING IN PUBLIC.

MAYBE IN YOUR BEDROOM

BUT CERTAINLY NOT IN PUBLIC, LET ALONE DRAGONFLY WHERE MISS DRAGONFLY ALWAYS GO! haha

(Sometimes I wonder whether are we true friends to her… LOL)

THE GRAND SABOTAGE!

REMOVE THE CONDOM USING ANY PART OF YOUR FACE!

Figuring out how to do it? (BTW, that is Bingal, her favourite purple colour! )

Using her teeth to do it, that is !!

Finally Out!

It is not over, not so easy! Another one for her!!

That is Cucumber!

Got so difficult or not? LOL

OH YES!

HAHAHAH that is the finale of all the sabotage.

I must say Miss Toh is really ON to do all these. Just don’t dare her to do something !

For all that participation, she earns something, that is to open the presentssss!

Purple Rose made by Linda!

Aurora necklace from Linda!

Coach Wristlet from us !

CAKE CUTTING SESSION !!

NOT THE TYPICAL KIND OF CAKE-CAKE

BUT CUPCAKES! LOVELY!

Girls Love Cupcakes!

ANOTHER MISS TOH’S FAVOURITE –

WINNIE THE POOH !

(present from Linda’s daughters!)

UP NEXT…

THE 3 SECOND CHALLENGE!

WOO MISS TOH !! (please, please pretend that you didnt see Jac and my face behind!!)

I don’t know why I am always so excited to do that for people…

If you understand what is ‘ C-H-U-I’ !! (so, Miss Toh, I don’t only post ugly pics of you okie!!)

The party is pretty much in a higher mode now, with all the interesting things happening. So here are some other ala carte photos!

Tommy!

Six

Kesper

Jac and Me!

Dear came shortly with Ang Bao ($$$$!!!) as present for Toh and

together with Owen Tan!

My loves!

Piglet mouth and ears being ripped off. Disfigured!

Winnie the Pooh got sexually abuse

 

It was overall a fun night! All was well planned and I hope the birthday girl really enjoy herself.

Hope she can feel our sincerity!

All the well wishes I shall save it till the actual day then say it to her!

 

splendid long weekend!

I had a splendid long weekend.

Miss Toh’s Quarter Century Birthday Party was a blast.

From the dinner to the party, everything was enjoyable.

Will upload all the photos once Linda uploaded from her camera!

And I super don’t feel like coming to work today, it just kills me after relaxing for 3 days.

ARGH!

Friday Night 18th Sep

Initially was to catch up with Fish & Jimmy but in the end did not because they were at Movida. We wouldn’t want to go over St James that early therefore the girls met up at Mr Bean for coffee again.

Pardon me, I only camwhore during weekends.

Upon reaching Mr Bean, I thought Miss Toh was late and I sat at one table waiting for her. I really did glance around but I didn’t notice her until she call out to me 10 minutes later from the other table.

HAHA.

Sorry man maybe I was too engrossed with Jason on the line and also I think my eyesight deteriorate pretty much. Should change a new pair of lens soon!

Char came shortly and just very randomly, we went down to Alcool pub @ Boat Quay and look for FM and co. As usual, a round of fun games plus drinking make our night pretty amuse, especially a classic sentence for the night from T to K:

“So you stand already?”

I couldn’t imagine how RA that was but well, even so, it was just a verbal sexual assault, not much harm though. LOL.

Alcool pub was special in the sense that it only hire waiter and the PRO which are females only play games with customers instead of serve drinks. That was a new thing because I have never seen waiter in a pub? They even serve us hot towels to wipe our hands. Toh was so funny and said that we are like in a ‘Gigolo Club’. HAHA.

Headed to DF and back to dear home together with him. He sent the girls home and because the girls were high in spirits due to intoxication or whatsoever, they blabbed out all my secrets to him in the car. DAMN!

Okie, it was well known that I sometimes call him BB behind his back because I can’t bring myself to say it infront of him, there is still a sense of embarrassment when it comes to certain things.

You think BB is very normal right?

No lor, because I have a different definition.

It is named as Blackie Baby. (because he is quite dark) 

LOL!! DAMN ER XIN I KNOW, STOP LAUGHING!

I hate the girls for unveiling such secret. HAHA.

Actually I think I am really very ‘cock’ sometimes. Just when before I got together with him, I gave him a nickname – J.Lo (Jennifer Lopez) because his full name is Jason Low ma. Okie, I am so lame I know.

Saturday, 19th Sept

Helped out Jason abit on his work and that is it, he is finally free for the weekends! All the cars are out!

It was a simple and relaxing Saturday. I wasn’t feeling very alright because of the hangover that I had.

I swear I am not going to have excessive drinking with empty stomach because the aftermath is terrible.

I felt the nausea feeling whole day long, until late Saturday night. It just sucks!

We went to have steamboat at JUJU Hokkaido Restaurant at Paradiz Centre. It was a good meal even though my appetite ain’t really good.

Jason wearing the AX cap I bought for him. He likes it (I assume, lol!) and so……. he is going to wear it everyday and dumped his worn out and dirty cap! This photo looks abit scary though, as if there is no head/ face but a cap and body because he said don’t take his face! HAHA.

We had the set meal and this is the starter of the meal. Tofu and I-dont know-what-fish and 3/4 boiled egg! (I think the egg taste great and Jason loves the I-dont know-what-fish)

I chose my soup base to be Hot and Spicy. The dumplings are the side order included in the meal. Taste not bad actually but too many of it that I have to force it down my throat after the 3rd one.

The main ! Jason’s beef set.

My Seafood set! Nice deco!

I couldn’t really finish the food and keep dumping the cuttlefish and crabs to Dear. Of course he gave me some beef too and I think overall the food was really not too bad.

My dessert - The Red Bean Mochi. I love red beans and especially this dessert too and Jason had another one, Fresh Sago, which I didn’t take photo of it because I forgot. =p

Total bill came out to be around $35 per person. We think that it was quite worth it because of the fabulous customer service that they provided. The servers kept on checking on us on how is the food and constant refill of water/ soup. Not to mention, the service-oriented and ultra friendliness from the staff left us a good impression of this restaurant.

Will patronize someday again, but with a perfect appetite.

Wanted to walk around after dinner but it was drizzling. Dropped the idea and went back home to watch TV instead.

Dear is super interested in show of similar context to 杀破狼, which was aired in Channel 8 on Saturday night. We missed the front part and he was quite enthu in finding the show. Another show, which he asked me to find for him few months ago but to no avail (lol, sorry, abit inefficent in this) – 枪火was raked up by him after watching that 杀破狼 la. I remembered I have the DVD but don’t know where I chucked it!

So, if any kind soul, who happened to have the shows mentioned above and don’t mind lending me the DVD/ VCD, you will be very much appreciated!

After the show, boredom got into us. Didn’t really know what to do on a Saturday night when both are not out partying. Thought of going prawning but I changed the idea to just having coffee. I was probably feeling lethargic due to the stupid hangover. 

Went to fetch Owen and off we went to  师奶 HK Cafe at Upper East Coast Road for coffee and chit chatting session. I had luncheon and egg bread too as supper. OH SHEESH. =(

Sunday, 20th Sept

Woke up at 2pm, bought lunch for Jason. Prepared at 3-ish because I am meeting the girls at 5plus. It is Miss Toh big day!

Char came to fetch me from Jason’s place.

It has been long since we meet during daylight. HAHA

Camwhore in the cab..while on the way to fetch Toh!

With the present we going to give the dear girl!

The Act-Cuters!!!!!!! I know I can’t beat Miss Char on the ability to look cute, I am not gifted in that, SOBS. I also hope I can take photos other than flash-that-smile kind of photos lor (Toh is so going to damn laugh at this sentence!)

And we fetched Miss Toh..off we went to Vivo City for din din after meeting Linda and Jac there!! WEE!! A GREAT DINNER!

*to be continued*

in the mean time.. perhaps some preview of the night..I am afraid that the next post will be too heavy with too many photos!

With Jac, check out that new hairstyle. So suitable for her!!

And this is the pretty female lead of the night – Karin Toh!

OKIE!! I will post the other interesting photos (some photos are like W-O-A-H!!) once Linda upload it, I will do up the next post for her birthday party! I bet she enjoyed and we really does even most of the time we were complaining and pushing the irritating people infront of us! And the excessive drinking that begins after 2am ! (for me, haha) 

Anyway, my sis and Jamie is going to U.S for holiday this Saturday. SO ENVY! I should have go!!!!!

Inevitably, a shopping checklist was given to sis. Right, BEBE, Levis, AX, Kate Spade, GUESS and Victoria Secrets. I am really not ‘paiseh’to order alot!

I emailed her and irritating sister replied me with:

” helloooooooooooooooo,
ur order a lot lol! that time asked u help me go bkk buy things,only makan stuffs back loh and i knew abt ur new bf lol “

Wah liew. What is there special and interesting to buy in BKK? HAHA. Somemore that time she only asked me to buy food! And what’s with the know about my new bf? Abit no link lor. HAHA

Yeah I hope she does enjoy her trip and take care of each other!

And I am hoping to see the items from my buylist soon!

*keep fingers crossed that she can find all! HEHE*

 

just a short update!

Another unremarkable week has passed.

It is going to be a good weekend I supposed, with the anticipated party coming on -

MISS KARIN TOH’S BIRTHDAY PARTY ON SUNDAY!

Will be having dinner together with the girlies at Vivo City and a drink-drank-drunk-snack-games-dance night at DF.

I bet she will be happy with the companies of all her lovelies. HEHE

Tonight the girls will have a catch up session with Fish & Jimmy who apparently is our best KTV outing companions.  

But we might just be going to a pub.

This week passes relatively fast actually which I don’t know why even I wasn’t out most of the days.

It was only that I went out on Tuesday to have a chill out session with Char & Toh plus “effort-ly” dropped by AX to buy a cap for Jason.

The boyfriend is whining to me about his dirty and old cap.

So being a loving girlfriend, I bought him one on Tuesday despite having a hard time choosing one that I deem is suitable for him. But the very helpful salesman ease my problem by being the model.

Quickly rushed to meet the girls because I was late and Miss Toh is handphone-less due to her negligence last Saturday that she lost her phone. (I still remember I was napping in the middle of the night and almost jumped up from the bed when I received the news that she lost her less than a week old Blackberry phone)

 It is going to rain again ! The hazey and unpredicable weather is making my poor nose having it runs. Have been sneezing non – stop and I hope I get better by the end of the day!

Boyfriend’s work is snatching him away from me this week!

I guess that is how busy his business can be prior to a Public Holiday.

He has been so busy, so busy from morning to night. So he works like more than 12 hours a day? 

TSK

But luckily we still managed to have the usual chatting session at night for an hour or two everyday. So the neglectedness in the day is forgiven. =)

Poor guy because even when he is talking to me, he needs to multi-task as well. But it’s alright! Weekends are here and I can see him soon! Hopefully he won’t be as busy as the last!

And I secretly laugh behind my monitor when he gave me his routine email updates yesterday with the title:

“I MISS YOU HOR”

The ‘HOR’ actually adds alittle bit of amuse plus naughty plus irateness plus wittiness.

Simple and loving gesture like this can make my day.

That is just so easy. =) But it might be for him only. LOL

 

a long post + some pics

Shucks its Monday again. I hope this week pass as quickly as how I want it to be.

And what’s new? I am so bored again at work. Perhaps now I can write a longer post even if nobody bothers to read.

Actually I don’t really care if you does read, because I realised that some came to my blog, got worked up about what I wrote, rage into a fit just because of what I wrote. I think it is funny but well I try to understand these are girl’s nature because that is how info can be digged (I dont know what kind of info they are seeking for).

Sometimes I also think, well, this year I met some people (I mean really more than 1) are my 小人. But I should reverse it to another way that I might be their 小人too. You see how complicated things can get to.

Nevertheless, it never stops me to blog about what I want because if you kindly read the domain, it spells my name.

Anyway, my weekends are still alright even though not much activities were engaged. Not really exciting nor nothing boring. Just a very normal one.

Friday night, I met up with FM & Co. It has been long since I have seen these people – FM, JW, Ivy, Feon, Seng Cai, Jeremy, Louis & Kasper. I still remember how much I used to go drinking with them from Central Pub to De Alto. And its time to do some catching up. 

I brought Jac along with me. Met them at Boat Quay, Plush. As usual, we played many games including the infamous Seven, Double game that they have invented. It was a killer game because lotsa drinking is involved! I really laugh till my jaws dropped and stomach doing somersault!

Jac went to find her friend shortly at another pub. I stayed on with them and after many rounds of games/ drinks, we went outside to chat. Had a good laugh over some silly matters but I am glad that they are really supportive as friends offering help to me for some matters that left me in fury.

Jac came over and dragged me to another pub, BarDot with her friends. Earlier on, I was drinking beer all the way and finally, we have got a taste of our poison, Martell!

At Bardot.

Martell Loves..

If you can’t see tipsy-ness on our faces..

Then..

the below explains better!

Yeah!

Match and Jac

It was already 3.15am. I urged Jac to go fly because I don’t really wish to stay there anymore as I never like KTV pub unless friends insisted on going. Went down to look for Jason at fly!

The night ended fast and thanks Jason for sending Jac home to Jurong! I know he is really tired and the distance is so far for him. When we reached Bedok, it was already breaking dawn!

Saturday, we didn’t do much things on that day except that Jason was quite busy with his work and at night we went to eat fishhead steamboat with his parents at Balestier. Oh, another stunning thing is that we both turn in really early, like 11 plus at night? He slept all the way till the next morning (guess thats how tired he was). As for me, I did wake up in between to sms with the girls and sleep then wake up and watch TV and back to bed.

Sunday - Dear woke me up with kisses (I seriously loves that) and asked if I went out last night? Haha, I actually lied to him that I did, thinking that he might believe because he slept like a log?

But he knows I am lying, which means next time I can’t sneak out when he is asleep because he does know la!  But anyway, I won’t do that la. HAHA. I went back to sleep and when I woke up, he was already out because one of his car broke down.

I helped him abit with his work. Sometimes I do feel quite stressed to drive the cars but I know that I have to help him because I know he needs extra helping hands and I hope to ease his workload.

 He was really busy yesterday. I was at home all the while until around 8pm, I went to Tampines Mall to meet up with Owen as he wants to buy a digital camera. We went to Blue Oasis to chill thereafter and Dear asked us to wait for him there until he settled his stuff.

For that 2 hours plus of chill out session, we chatted alot, on relationship stuff mostly. Not that I have a traumatic happening going on with Jason, but we were just talking generally about my relationship with him, I am not wallowing nor whining.

Thing is, I am actually quite an emotionally inane woman. And I don’t know what happened to me that I became someone who pent-up emotions, and bring them home for myself.

 ” He is fortunate to have you, and you are fortunate to have him too”

That is Owen’s best sentence above.

“When a couple from 2 different world get together, each must learn and try to accept each other’s flaws and appreciate the beauty of one another”

This somehow came out from me but he elaborated further, agreeing with what I said.

 I know sometimes the way Jason express his thoughts jarred on my nerves, or rather, I am not used to it. But I know it is all out of care and concern. I feel rather bad for not being able to understand that he might have his bad times at work and it is sapping all his energy away. I should get into deeper understanding on these.

I mean I understand, but maybe not deep enough until I will put myself in his shoes. 

Perhaps I should start doing so. 

I kept telling myself about the points that I like about him. I like him to be driven by his work, I like him because he is hardworking. I like him because he is self-motivated, I like him because he need not me to nag at him. I wouldn’t want him to change because if he does, then he is not the man who I was once attracted to isn’t it?

Just this one point :

There are hard facts that I don’t like. I don’t like anyone to use irritating tone to talk to me. Even if your anger is out of concern. I hope he can understand and in the mean time, I will try to understand why is he reacting this way. But sometimes I really don’t know how to entertain foul mood.

But what Owen said was correct. No one is made perfect for anybody. That is his way of expressing. And once, somebody told me, you can’t expect changes from anybody. It is only if you can or cannot accept. It is whether you take it, or leave it. The more you expect the changes, the outcome will be even more horrendous. Nobody expect to change anybody except that the person is willing to do on his/ her own accord.

Anyway, I know Dear is not expressive, same like me towards him. We are more to impassive, don’t really know how to demonstrate feelings. I don’t make the initiative to hug or kiss him doesn’t mean that I don’t like him. I don’t sweet talk to him doesn’t mean that he is not important. There was once during a casual chatting session, I told him not to take me for granted in future no matter what. And he replied me with he wouldn’t because I didn’t treat him that good until he will start to take me for granted.

But one thing that I have learnt – I learn to pacify, which never in my life I will pacify somebody. It is always the other way round.

All I know now is, I will want to treasure him as long as I can. I should move forward together with him and not doing it with every two steps i take forward, i backtrack one. I should eliminate the 禁忌that I have commited and forgo the benchmark that I have set.

 

We chatted until Jason came to fetch us to 85 for late dinner. Yes, I am a nice girlfriend and Owen is a nice brother as both waited for him to have dinner. HAHA

That is about it for such a long post and this is me penning down all these on 14th September.

In retrospect, I need to recall because u know what, women are subject to changes always (or rather me la I don’t want to drag the whole world of women down), maybe one day what I wrote on the above might not be what I meant someday. Contracdicting eh? But doesn’t matter!!

 

Ending with,

Boyfriend, I miss you!

 

wednesday evening night with dear char!

I am happy that it is already Thursday and this week passed kinda fast!

Maybe it is only a 4 working week for me therefore I feel so.

Yesterday, I met up with Char Kim Kim alone. We had a mission and that is to buy Karin Toh’s birthday present.

Mission completed. Finally this task is down! Though her birthday still counts 16 days later, we decided to give it to her on her celebration which is next Sunday!

Better buy first if not it will be mad rush after.

I hope that she will like the present. Hee.

After that, we went to have Subway (sudden craving)! I actually love Subway because it is one of the healthier fast food and it taste great. I am happy because I am able to resist the cookies! Yea, we didn’t order the meal.

Walked around FEP after that, I bought a black jacket. Super loves! Char bought a pair of black pants.

Sat down and chill at MacDonald’s.

Couldn’t decide if we want to go DF to find Toh, Jac and the rest as they are there because of Jon’s concert.

Dropped the idea in the end because we concluded that we are too lazy and tired. Moreover, we need to work today!

Expected, drama last night. It has been drama since last week during my absence. And I was absent for last night drama too. But live CNN reporter Miss Toh is very efficent in updating news to us.

HAHA, maybe we really got too bored at work sometimes that we need things/ gossips to spice up our life alittle!

It was great catching up with Char because we will laugh at the good old silly times that we once had.

Coincidently, we chatted about how Jason and I got together which I think I have never really mention before here.

Actually in a really funny way or rather I should say you will really never know what will happen next in your life.

I knew him  for almost 2 years plus through mutual friends. We only seen each other in clubs and never exchange words before because he is shy and I am ‘DAO’ to shy people. HAHA.

It was only during this year February then we had little interaction which I don’t know how/ why it happened too. LOL 

Yah, the marriage game, the ring exchanged.

And subsequent SMS, MSN thereafter.

That was when abit of ‘feel’ for each other arises.

But! Not a very good ending initially. We got together for merely 3 weeks then we broke off, because of some unforseen incidents that popped up.

For that 1 month that we are apart, he never leaves my life and he is still nice to me even though we are in a very complicated situation.

We finally got back together after sorting out the mess.

All way good until now, so far…. yeah!

 

Okie, so after chilling session with Char, we left home at around 11pm. Reached home at 11.30, wash up, chat with Dear and zzz at 1am.

Only about 6 hours of sleep and I am already quite stone.

Therefore, I really need to salute to Miss Toh for having only 15mins of power nap before heading to work this morning after DF.

Ultimate Strong!!

HAHA.

 

Going for lunch soon !

Half day gone and it is going to be weekend soon !!

genting trip !

I am back to work finally.

As mentioned, I went Genting last weekend and was on leave on Monday.

I practically spent the whole noon napping away because I was too exhausted from the trip.

Here are the photos!

We set off on Friday night. Reached dear house around 8 plus, helped him buy dinner while he cleared his last bit of work before we set off to fetch the rest. =)

Went to fetch Elvin first then ChunHao & Irene. Chunhao is really nice to be the driver of the whole trip. My first time seeing the couple and they are really nice people.

We reached Genting at around 4am. I think the whole journey was about 3.5 hours ride and I can say it was pretty fast, all thanks to the very skillful driver running at 170 km/hour. Haha. We wanted to stay at Resort Hotel at first, but rooms were fully booked!

No choice, we went to have our breakfast first at MacDonald’s. Wanted to go to casino after that but have to wait for Elvin because he wanted to buy a pair of jeans and shoes but the shops are not opened yet! Therefore, Dear, Elvin & I went back to the car and sleep and the other couple went to try their luck on the hotel rooms again.

In the end, we gotten room at First World Hotel. But we can only check in at 10plus so we continued to rest in the car first.

After checked in, we rest for awhile and got prepared for the day’s activity!

Both looking tired! HAHA, with that few hours of sleep.

Sorry about the messy background!

The first thing we did was to find food…was kinda famished even though we had breakfast…

Went to Genting Hotel 老友记 to have lunch!

While on the escalator..Elvin is so nice to help us take so many photos.. which look so identical. HAHA

 

Even on the way to eat also can take so many photos! LOL

Settled down and see what is nice on the menu….

supposed to be a snapshot but I know it is not. LOL

This is Chunhao & Irene!

Mr Handsome looking at what to eat

And so, we ordered the following..I personally love the Thai BeanCurd. Awesomely taste good!

Forgot to take photo of another dish, Xiao Long Bao! I love it too but the one that they serve not really nice, too dry.

After that, we moved to the casino!

While on the way there, the guys saw this ‘punching machine’ at the arcade and decided to compete among themselves.

First up is dear. LOL this photo is taken when he was in action, therefore abit blur. (poor dear sprain his hand after that!)

Elvin was next but I didnt catch a shot of him. It is ChunHao’s turn!

Eventually the winner is ChunHao! Congrats!

In the casino, Chun Hao & Irene went to the VIP room to play and we meet 2 hours after that.

So the rest of us went around to play other games and have fun time laughing when playing the Jackpot. Yes, we won little money from there but all was lost in the dice game. I got a shock when they told me they lost all the $ we won after I came back from toilet la! HAHAHA

Went to the Theme Park after that! Woah, didnt know that the entrance price was so expensive nowadays! RM40plus per person! But still, we decided to go in.

The Couples (poor Elvin has to keep helping us take photos, thanks man!! )

The first ride we took was a roller coaster. Not the very exciting one but still, I feel butterfly in my stomach as people who knows me well know that I don’t dare to take such ride!

Intially I feel that I should stay below and perhaps help them take a photo or something, but heck in the end la! Just go up, erm, abit reluctantly. HEHE

Taking my own sweet time to go up lor!

Irene!

Dear & Elvin

Irene & I

Okie, being the scardy cat, I screamed my lungs out. -_-”

Loving Couples!

Mr Elvin!

Next, we went to play some games!

Trying to throw the ball into the container. Not easy!!

None of us won anything. LOL

Off we went to the haunted house, which we think is not scary at all! Abit boring though because I think the machines/ props inside are all shut down.

Irene & I

We played another game !

Hooking the ducks!

My expressions damn funny and I am so lousy in hooking. HAHA

Elvin and Irene went to take Viking Ship next. The rest waited below. Erm, I don’t dare to sit on that too la! =(

Walked around and took some photos..

Finally a shot with all of us

Guys doing see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil. Haha!

Next up, Elvin, Irene and I went to take this ride which I call it the ‘Flying Umbrella’

Dear didnt want to take it because he said he will be giddy as it spins too much!

Indeed when I get down, my head spin like as if I had down a few glasses of hard liquor. HAHA~

Okie, time passes really fast. Almost 7pm.

Went back to the hotel and took some stuff.

Went to had international buffet dinner at Coffee Terrace @ Genting Hotel!

Not bad for the food there and I love their ice-creams! Even though I only had one helping of 2 scoops but I just have to control abit!

Yummilicious

Dear & me. I am looking abit tired here. And was really quite tired and was stoning when eating. LOL

After the dinner, Dear & I had almost 3 hours of 二人世界 because the rest went to the VIP room in Casino.

We shopped around in First World Hotel area, so sad that there is nothing much to buy!

After an hour or so, both of us went into the Casino ourselves. Played my favourite game, Roulette but using the machine because the table is too packed.

We lost RM100. Sorry dear for losing your money! Guess we are down on luck at that moment, haha!

Got tired and we went to the cafe outside the hotel for a coffee. Really relaxing, sipping hot coffee in a cooling weather!

Waited for Elvin because our plan was to go clubbing after his visit to the casino.

In the end, he called at around 12 plus and off we went to Safari Disco.

Taken using Dear’s handphone

3 of us finished this bottle of Barcardi Razz. It taste good with 7-up maybe because it is raspberry flavour.

The club is fairly okie. Music was alright just that the crowd was abit erm.. maybe we are out of place. HAHA. I was alittle bit tipsy! While on the way to the ladies, I can sense that I am going to sleep soon after seeing the light. But I told myself that I have to make my way back no matter what!

And the funniest thing was, the 3 of us were actually quite drunk and yet we can make our way to Casino and played a very fun game – Casino War.

Had fun laughing and seriously our luck was quite good at first. It was really funny on some part of the game but eventually we lost all. LOL!!!

Elvin continued to stay and we went back to the hotel, woke ChunHao & Irene up so that they can continue their winning streaks.

Dear knock out immediately on the bed and I removed my makeup before going to lala-land. Managed to do that even though very much I just like to sleep with my make-up on!

The next day…

I woke up at around 11am. Prepared and Dear woke up shortly. Ring the rest and wake them up. We are early therefore Dear accompany me to the Watson downstairs to buy some necessities.

The rest came and we continued our way to JB, to a Kelong to have seafood!

When we get down to KL, we had a quick bite at MacDonald first just in case we got too hungry.

After around 3-4 hours (we got lost along the way, got into some kampong area and even saw cows crossin the road), we finally reach the Kelong !

Nice scenery!

We had a sumptuous dinner. Cheap and not too bad. Continued our way back to SG.

Home Sweet Home at around 10-ish.

Wash up, unpack and laze around in the living room to watch TV until I fell asleep.

Dear came to wake me up and continue to sleep in the room.

Was on leave on Monday. Slept throughout the day. Dear was busy working. It was only until 9plus then we managed to have dinner at Mr Bean. First time trying their baked rice, not too bad. =)

Overall, a good trip. Though it is short and tiring, but a getaway will definitely liven up my life alittle while!

Love his company too.

=)