misconception

I received an email from Jairia yesterday.

“Ger, can I ask you something? I don’t know why but I have been feeling that you are very quiet recently, like u are not as open up as last time. Is there something troubling you? Or is it that I did something wrong that makes you piss?”

I was puzzled when I saw that and right after, I did reflect on it and agree that I was more quiet recently when lunching with them. I told her that perhaps I am feeling very tired everyday. And when I am tired, I usually don’t talk much.

She is such a silly girl. Why would she think that she did something wrong that made me piss?

Maybe I gave people that misconception.

Actually, I am someone who don’t talk much under some circumstances.

1) Tired

2) Moody/ Angry

3) With people that I don’t know well

4) When I am eating (this depends, usually I don’t because I can’t chew and talk at the same time)

We often have mistaken thoughts from others because of perception.

You will know it is a misconception normally after a period of time when you get to know somebody better.

For instance, talk about my close friends.

Before (misconception) 

- I thought that Toh is someone who is very quiet, unfriendly, unsociable and a girl who is very down to earth. WHAHAHA  and i will never ever click with her.

- I thought that Char was a super fierce AH LIAN. I remember that I dont dare to talk to her much. LOL.

- I thought that Lim was a flirt-er 8 years back

- I thought that WW will never get married

After (the true facts)

- Toh is a very outgoing person. VERY sociable. NOT very down to earth but fun to be with and is one of my closest gf now.

- Char is actually not lian at all. But she will still scold bad words often, especially when she is drunk. And now, not only I dare to talk to her, I scold her too! Haha. *muackies*

- I wouldn’t comment much about Lim being flirt or not (whahaha) but well, he was and he can be a good and faithful boyfriend for many years.

- Ok, so WW likes woman which I thought his whole life is only about computer.

The most irritating misconception about me was:

1) I am very unfriendly (actually I am not unfriendly, is just that I don’t usually hit well right on the spot with you. But once heaten up, I can talk alot! And I usually don’t talk alot to strangers unless work purpose)

2) I am a ONS partner. (my goodness, these people, my forehead never write “CFM”. I am anti-ONS but I don’t discrimate people who does that)

3) I am too nice that looks fake (whether I am nice or not to people depends on who that person is. I am not saint that go around treating everybody nice. If I treat u nice, means I am genuine to you, why would it be fake?)

**I actually wanted to post a quiz that I did just now but I am getting fed up with the alignment and I am running out of time.

I will post it once I have more time to fix the bloody alignment.

It is long weekend. I hope everyone will have fun.

Maybe not for me.

 

p/s: I am feeling kinda moody this morning but after I watched a video, I burst out laughing. Freaking hilarious!

photos from the cruise trip

After consolidating the photos from my side and gotten from Sheila, here are the photos!

Super Star Virgo

I dont know why i look kinda shag here

Set off!

Very nice deco @ the lobby….

We are excited that we gotten Balcony View Cabin!

and i started to cam-whore abit @ the balcony….

on the chair @ the balcony..very comfortable!

We put our stuff and head over to the Mediterran Restaurant for buffet dinner~

Waiting for the people to finish taking their food!

After dinner, we went to the deck and enjoy the scenery and explore abit!

In the lift

Snapshot – I want to put up a ‘twist’ sign but abit too slow. HAHA

 

Michael & Mun is trying to imitate ‘TITANIC’. Super gay!

Enjoying the breeze but the man behind seriously spoilt the photo. LOL!

After that, we went for a drink @ one of the lounge..

Michael, Mun & William

Verlyn, Me & Sheila

I ordered watermelon juice. Was thinking if I should take alcohol but decided to be healthy!

My Watermelon Juice, Michael’s Pineapple Juice & Sheila’s Martell Coke.

Mun disguisting gayish act. That explains why he is my sister. HAHA

 Went back to the room at around 11.30pm. ANDDDDD!!! We decided to eat supper. OMG! And is a very heavy one!

Slept at around 1plus…

Woke up feeling refresh the next morning.. even though i miss the breakfast because i couldnt wake up. haha

The first thing i did in the morning was to go explore the pool! YEA!

But of course.. the even earlier thing that I did was to open the balcony door, have my coffee and enjoy the breeze~

The blue blue sea..

In my robe..and ya, we just wear this robe and go to the pool lor. Pardon my no-makeup face.

The pool area

the slide that we played twice then sian liao.

I didn’t really get to swim, we only went to the jacuzzi & spa (SHIOK)

Went back to bath and change, then to lunch ! this time round we have chinese food.

While waiting for them to get ready.. i laze at the balcony and take photos again!

 

 

Act sexy. LOL!

 

Waited and waited till i laze back to my bed……. HAHA

 

 

After lunch..we walked around and take photos again lor!

 

The SHK Khakis

Then..we decided to visit this room…

& play mahjong!!!

It was kinda of a last minute decision because we have nothing much to do and Weitian was suggesting it. We rent the room for $20 for 3 hours. YEAH!

Sheila is very happy too.

 

I act like I just gao SHI SAN YAO

Wei tian said he hopes to have DA SAN YUAN instead.

And so, we had 3 hours of mahjong. Weitian was the big winner (won around $60) and I am the runner-up, won $35! *GRIN*. And i dont understand why Weitian always win when I play MJ with him la.

There is a BBQ party at the pool area at 6pm. We were still not hungry yet therefore we went back to the room and slack.

Sheila playing her Nintendo DS Lite

And me snapping a photo of the evening sea

Wah! Ah Lian in the house sia! LOL

I am no better, just slightly demure-er. LOL!

In fact they just crack a very funny joke

Weitian: Sorry, i just farted.

Mun: Ya i know, very smelly.

WHAHAHA

Lying down on the chair!

 

Sheila was saying that Mun looks like the TW celebrity DA BING. And he said that DA BING mouth is so big that he can put his fist in. He was trying that. HAHA

 

 We love the evening sun~

 

We are crazy to snap each other from the other room

Act EMO.

Ok, after the crazy session, we know we were hungry and off we went to the BBQ Party. Hell lotsa food to eat can?! And that was my most sinful meal of the century!

Spread of food!!!!!!!

super happy before eating but very sad after it. haha

this is Jess’s son and he is very shy but he can play the slide for 12 times.

Both me and Sheila decided to ‘molest’ him by kissing him. HAHA!

He quite happy leh. LOL

Stupid mun was saying that I am a female molester that even XDD also wont let off. And he was astonished by our action when he was back from taking his food. WHAHA

After the dinner, we went to look around and accompanied Michael to DFS and buy some stuff. Our photos that we took at the entrance was out too and I bought my picture in a keychain and a 5R photo. That was a total of $24! It was daylight robbery but stupidly I still buy because the photo is quite nicely taken lor. =(

We went to watch a comedy+magic show after that.

William & GF

With Me!

Sheila~

Michael & Mun

Got snapped below and lucky i am not wearing a skirt. HAHA

We ordered Red Wine while enjoying the show

Mungy enjoying the red wine

YAYA then supper after that AGAIN.

Slept very early at 1 am and next day I managed to woke up for breakfast (finally).

Time to go home~

The scenery of sailing back….

 

Goodbye star virgo!

 

Overall, I had fun with the people but there are really nothing much on a cruise ship. I reckon I will go again unless I want a relaxing trip which involves alot of eating. HAHA

 

my char char birthday party!

As mentioned, Sunday was the dear girl’s birthday!

She had a celebration at fly on Saturday night and yes……..our ‘ulterior motive’ of letting her get drunk is successful!

Ok la, she is not dead drunk to the extend whereby she can’t walk but she is just super super high!

And actually we wanted 3 of us to get drunk together.

Toh was down initially but after raising the white flag, she seems okie at the end.

Char was surviving at first but guess there are too many anonymous drinks for her to handle.

As for me? Erm.. well I did had the kick after drinking too many mixtures of alcohol.

But was rather awake after running errands. Like going up to fetch Jaclyn, waiting to put the cake, pouring drinks for others, waiting for the cake (I waited for 30minutes for the cake!!), serving the cakes and be a camera-woman for the whole nite.

And I don’t know why I feel freaking hot the whole night lor. The weather itself is already very hot and plus the air-con in there is lousy that day. I can’t feel cold air at all!

Overall, a fun night with the darlings and I hope Char did enjoy herself!

Photos first and mostly is Char’s photos because she is the limelight ma. Haha. I didn’t take much photo because I was busy+lazy+I think I look very ‘chui’ when I am hot and the stupid pimples on my face made me feel so annoyed!

Haha…..same spot again! Heeren’s B1 ladies!

Nice!! I like this photo with Char

Beedae Ger

Toh Shu Shu

Both my loves.

Jessica~

BFF!

Act Cute!

@ the destination……

Char with the girl -Xinyu, Clara & Grace

Rare photo – 4 is in!

Char & Silver

Vivian, Phyllis, Karin, Kim & Silver!!

Char with UPS

The LES

Jack

Toh with Six (every week come, every week take, everyweek not sian, lol)

 

My 2 loveliest.

With Isabelle!

Nicholas & friend

Char with Criss (think his bdae is 1 day after Char!)

Char with Jaacent

Jaclyn & Wuming

TT (Toh&Tom)

I want to complain about the servers in DF! They actually mixed up our cake with others. We bought a chocolate cake but instead we end up with Fruits cake. No choice, that is what we have for then~

Happy Birthday my dear!

I like this photo!

The ‘mistake’. Haha. But heard that it was quite nice. I ate one but I forgot the taste because I have only alcohol taste in my mouth!

TW

I dont know when can Nigel take a serious photo!

Brenden

Owen

And unexpectedly..we saw the 4 guys!

Cashe

Gabriel (don’t think nobody can regconise u by doing this stupid action, haha!)

Ah Lim

Fatty Ben (why his smile so weird?)

Ok.. so the night adjourned when the lights are on. Obviously Ms Char is not at her very sober stage and I have to accompany her to toilet and listening to her complaints! Haha.

Walked out together and it was raining!  Quickly hurried to the car after seeing Owen waving and scolding saying that there were 3 people waiting for me and yet I was so slow. =(

It was pouring heavily and went to have supper with Jason, Criss, Owen & Ah Yong @ Bedok South. I didn’t eat because I was so full after having the pizza & chicky wings from fly.

Slept at 8am. Was really tired.

All in all, a very fun night with the girls and once again I want to wish this sweetie a Happy Birthday!

You are my BFF, so is Toh.

And that will be your birthday wish too, am i right?!

Love ya baby!!

do you still want to waste food?

Received this heart-breaking email from Kumari.

It is the winning clip for Berlin short film festival.

Check it out:

http://www.cultureunplugged.com/play/1081

Sometimes we just don’t treasure what we have

We complain everyday how life is so unfair to us.

But look at the kids, do you still think that God is unfair to you?

Anyway, I should stop wasting food though I seldom do.

But there are bound to have times whereby you feel so full that you can’t finish.

Quit that bad habit, I am going to do it today.

Because I am going to be grateful for what I have and make the best of life.

Be helpful to others and you will be blessed!

Hope this inspiration stays long within me.

Alright, its Friday again!

I don’t know whats the plan tonight. 

Perhaps some relaxing program like prawning. 

And followed by a more havoc program like clubbing.

I went to Bugis to shop alone yesterday for just a mere 1.5 hours.

Pocket burned a hole because of the following purchases:

eyeliner, make-up base, mascara, illuminator, eye-lash curler. 

And found a new fragrance from AIGNER. I just love the sweet scent. 

k, i am going to pen off abruptly. 

Have a good weekend!

(forgot to add on, trust me that the next post will be filled with photos!!!)

Reminiscing (part I)

I got so bored at work that I indulge in reminiscence.

I read through the archives of Toh & Char’s blogs.

This is what I told Toh in the email:

Me: Eh I bored until I reading ur previous blog entry leh.. Now reading 2006 one. 

sobs. It was only 3 years ago and so many things changed. But lucky 3 of us still 

stand strong together

 

She: Haha.  You’re really damn bored sia until read my past entries. Actually last time I seldom blog one, actually now still same.  haha. This shows how strong our friendship were..

The most crucial part of the email:

She: From pictures we got become prettier bo?

Me: Eh for me I don’t think so leh………I think I look older.. very very very sad now.

She: Of course lah!  then you think you forever youthful meh?  You think you will still look as young as 3yrs ago meh?

Me: Aiyer.. I thought I can maintain my looks abit ma.. but it seems hard. Sian sia. sobs..Eh so u think I last time slimmer or now ah? pls say the truth hor

She: Erm.. I think you’re slimmer & prettier now.  Serious! Eh.. Actually last time wen I 1st saw you, dont think you are really pretty.  lol

HAHAHAHA!

Actually, I really think I look so much older leh. It is so annoying!! But the main point here is, we grow together. And there is indeed a ‘growing up’ phase.

I grabbed some old photos of ours.

I will post it one day. One fine day!! HAHA

Now just these…

2006 & 2007 respectively

And I coincidentally saw 2 very nice photo of them. 

VERY PRETTY OKIE!

 

She is very cute right? So sweet-looking la!!

Ah toh is very pretty here lor!!!!!!!

See, if I post these 2 photos they sure won’t scold me one. But I can’t guarantee for the other photos.

Okie, back to where I am from. So, bits and pieces flow into my brain when I was reading the entries.

I realised people really do COME & GO in your life.

You thought they will stay in your life forever, but never.

You thought they will go after awhile in your life, but they stays.

So, just just just just just ENJOY WHATEVER YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW.

I always tell the girls,

I live for the moment.

Because we cannot guarantee anything in life!!

I will try to keep people in my life now but sometimes it is beyond control if people wanna walk out of your life.

So, whatever.

Who wants to come, come.

Who wants to go, inform me first.

LOL.

The mind is getting cranky again. So I know, it gets cranky everytime I feel sleepy and bored.

give me a bed!

Not neccessary to be a bed.

A sofa

A couch

A boss chair

A table

A space!!

Anywhere la just a space that allows me to sleep!!

ZZZ monster is invading.

I hate it when I have to fight them, especially in a mid-week like Wednesday, when it is not here nor there.

Oh ya, I went to Tampines new shopping centre yesterday with Jason! It was called Tampines One (or something I can’t really remember, was too distracted to find a place to eat therefore I didn’t really go and see around)

We walked to all the levels of the mall but still couldnt decide on what to eat. Maybe there ain’t really any nice restaurants out there to choose.

Walked back to Tampines Mall and saw Fish & Co. Decided to have that instead since Jason has a crave for it. Actually me too because I was missing the seafood platter.

We were the last customers and I think the Customer Service there sucks because we waited so long for the food in a farmished condition. They didnt even offer to provide sauces until I requested for it.

Afterwhich, waited for him to change into his jeans and accompanied him to Dennis’s wife birthday at the usual pub.

Drove home at 1am. 

K.O at 2.30 am.

Woke up at 6am.  

And stayed awake till now….!

You know when u get too sleepy, you will tend to dream alot.

Talking about dreams, ah toh just told me about her funny dream in email just now. HAHA!

I am day-dreaming now. Not exactly day dreaming but was thinking about nonsense things.

Like SUDDENLY I feel how nice if I can own the following things -

My own nicely furnished apartment with sea view & breeze blowing on your face every morning you open the window at a nobody-can-find-me island.

But on this nobody-cañ-find-me-island, I have 2 rooms. 1 room is for my besties to stay in whenever I want to see them. Another room is for the man i love whenever i feel like snuggling up with.

And I think i will do this 24/7 because almost all the time i feel like seeing the besties and cuddle together with the man. LOL!

Perfect Scenario:

I woke up finding myself embracing the man that I love. Gets intimate abit and got up for wash up.

Breakfast was been served to me at my most comfortable and desirable sofa bed.

After fulfilling the stomach, I open the window to enjoy the breeze and freshness in the air, which has a lingering smell of  the sea and sand.

And its time to see the girls! And we all gossip till suñset.

The man of the life appear again and we went to bed snuggling up again.

LOL!!

Someone please just use her heels and throw at me. Thanks!

aaawww…the long weekend was over!

Typically feeling the Monday’s Blue now.

Especially the duper long weekend was over just like a blink of an eye.

Nevertheless, it was a pretty relaxing weekend.

I had a fair share of everything.

Movie, Clubbing, Slacking, Nua-ing, Sleeping and OMG Eating!

I ate alot during the weekend.

And mind you, what i ate was the most fattening food on earth.

I had Roti Prata on Thurs night. (3am, 1 egg 1 plain)

I had McSpicy Meal on a Sat night (2am)

I had KFC as late lunch on Sunday (5pm)

I know ah toh is screaming at me saying this: Don’t think people say ya become skinner then u can eat so much!

She said that to me twice. First was when i was sms-ing her telling her i am eating Mcspicy meal.

Second time is i told her that i ate KFC on Sunday in an email just now.

HAHA.

Maybe I got too carried away when my friends said I am slimmer on Fri night.

BUTTTT!! I will still try my best to curb my tempatation on food. I WANNA STAY SLIM!

Just a slightly more detailed happenings for the past few days.

9th April 2009 

I met up with Jason for this movie – Fast & Furious 4

We were quite disappointed with the show. Maybe our expectations are too high! But to be frank, I have never seen any of the F&F show before but I remembered that i caught scenes of it somewhere and it was nice.

We went to Chai Chee to have late night supper (yah, pratas that I was talking about). Owen & Ah Toh joined shortly after.

10th April 2009

Friday was ultimately a clubbing day. I met up with Ah Toh @ Heeren for Subway. I had a sudden crave for that and I don’t know why? We went down earlier to fly at around 1am because TW & Jac were already there.

We just have the mood to take photos on that day. And yes, we were snapping away the whole night!

Even before the moment we stepped into fly.

 

@ Heeren’s ladies. We had a new image. Okie la, maybe not me, because I just tied up my hair only. She has a new image! Did she look younger?~~??~~ hahahhaa!

 

I am on zebra that day. YES! I love animal prints! Weeks ago i was leopard, and now zebra. What’s up next?

 

The girl & I. How was her new bangs? Better say nice before she starts yelling at you and she will self-explain said she looks younger. Haha. Ok la, thats the fact.  I was still comtemplating whether to tied my hair or not because I am afraid that I look old. But the girl said not bad and partly because I got bad hair day and another reason is because……………..hmm. yes, u know it. haha.

Super Actress again. whahah. *muackies*

Upon reaching…

Dearest Jaclyn girl! (Wenshou is just so extra and I feel like killing him that day because he almost made me fell from Cove 3 to below)

 

The 2 best khakis

Jessica is here too!

 

Jimmy. He has been MIA-ing for quite long. Now back in action with Fishy!

Jessica with her idol, Jon Toh!!

We were at Cove 3 sofa area resting.. because too tired already!

Took all the funny shots…..

 

Playing kissing game again…..

 

The girl commented that she gave us the most horny kiss. WHAHA

More kisses……

 

So blissful!

 

Together with Ben. I havent seen him for 2 years!

Did I also mention that it is KC birthday as well?!

We were lucky that we managed to wish her happy birthday while at the door.. because by the next time we saw her, she was almost there. haha

KC & Mark

You can see how gone she is. LOL

Then we went over to the other side of the stage.. to find Nicholas

Nicholas & Toh

Toh & ‘Xiao Bai’ (Fabian)

Okok, then we hurried back to the tables.. it was really tiring running around and I think we better settle there for good.

 

Drummer – Bryan~

 

Keyboardist – Jaccent ~

Jessica!

Owen & Jac

Owen & Jason

 

Jason & me

 

Shots of Six & Jon

11th April 2009

It was so surprising that I didnt go out the whole day. I practically slack, nua and watch TV the whole Sat. I think for this whole year, I have never ever have a Sat like this. You know what happened when u Nua too much? You will eat alot! Ate Macdonald at 2am!! I had a powerful 11 hours of sleep! Damn shiok!

12th April 2009

Nothing much on for the day except for having KFC for late lunch.

Looking forward for another long weekend.

In the meantime, I am missing the dearest, again.

Sobs

i need a chill pill

Before i get into the topic as why I am hitting the roof, I need to declare that it was actually not that bad (for today) because I am totally in a holiday mood!

It is going to be a long weekend! And looking at the following events that are going to take place, it certainly make my day!

18th April – The dear girl celebrating her 25th birthday!

24 – 26th April – Star Cruise with Mun. It’s complimentary because his company sponsors it. Not with him alone of cause, with his colleaugues and William and GF.

9th May – BKK Trip!

To decorate my mood further, today is Thursday and it will be long weekend. I love it because it means more time for the dearests and more time for resting (hopefully). Haha!

Back to topic.

I was mentioning about this ex-colleauge of mine who owes me $. I found out some stuffs about him and it is just so ridiculous. Actually, he has the money to return to us (he not only owed me, he owed Mun & Glenn as well) few months ago but he squandered it by going for a holiday to Vietman and meet his mistress. Not only that, we learnt that few weeks ago he went for a rendezvous with his small wife to Malaysia.

Angry right? You have got the $ to go holiday and have a small wife but you have no $ to return to us?! I seriously thought that you have some big financial problem that doesn’t even allow you to buy a pack of rice and yet you can go enjoying!

Now, he has started his MIA action again. Nevermind, we have got plans to catch hold of him. If Plan A fail, we will use Plan B. I see how far he can run.

Dad has been chanting at me for being naive and soft-hearted. But he was helpful by saying that he will try his best to help me to settle it. He was on the phone with Mun last night and discussing on how to get the $ back.

I will drop by his house one of these days. This is the last thing that I want to do but seems like I am left with not much choice.  

Seriously, that $1000 i rather donate to charity than land on his hands. I am just angry that I was being played around like that. All the empty promises that was given makes me even more DULAN.

Perhaps as what dad said, I am too soft-hearted and trusting. I believe that nobody will con me but look at now. ARGH.

Felt rather consoled after talking to J.Lo about it and he was nice by saying that he is going to accompany me to his house. It definetly ease my problems abit.

Shall update on the progress again.